On the topic of popularity, I once heard someone ask “Well what’s wrong with wanting to be liked?” It can be regarded as quite a pathetic question, but it is undeniably a common one. In coming-of-age times, the new millennium encourages you to be yourself and not care what others think. It’s the perfect advice, but just a wee bit unrealistic if we take it literally. We live in this world with over 7 billion other people so if not family or friends, we’re forced to interact with coworkers or even ... View the Post
Purity: A Thing to Be, Not Do
I’ve heard it said so many times, “Staying pure is so hard to do.” To that I would simply say, purity isn’t something you do, it’s who you are. However, culture today will feed us responses like “sex is only physical, it doesn’t mean anything.” or “I just need to get it all out of my system.” LIES! Nothing created by God is ever meaningless, and how can you get something out of your system when you’re, in fact, putting it in there? I wonder. Anyway, here are a few lessons that I have personally ... View the Post
Black Women and Mental Illness
When you hear the word "Black Woman" what do you think of? Maybe strong, magical, smart, nurturer, etc. Growing up in a black family, you never really spoke about your business. The quote I often heard was "What happens in this house stays in this house!" That quote stayed with me even into my adulthood. Now, I understand that my aunts and grandmothers really meant well when they said those words. They didn't want people sticking their noses in something they had no business being in. Or ... View the Post
Girl, Get Your Life: 3 Ways to Get Organized in 2018
2018 IS HERE, GIRL! Like most people, you are probably recovering from the holidays and getting in gear for all that lies ahead for the year. Some are still vision boarding while others are putting the vision to work. Before we get deep into 2018, let me share 3 things you should consider to help you "get your life" and walk out of 2018 clutter free and organized. 1) Purge Your Space Friend, it's time to declutter that closet. I know we all love shoes, but do really you need 10 pairs of black ... View the Post
Find Your Why
I enjoy writing, but I don’t enjoy sharing my think pieces publicly. I get so nervous every time someone reads my writing. You may not believe me since I’m sharing this, but it’s true. I write about my thoughts, experiences, and fears, which is makes me extremely vulnerable. There is a quote that motivated me to publicly share with you all. “The fruit of everything good in life begins with a challenge” As intimidating as it is, the reason I can share my writing is because it contributes to my ... View the Post
Be Still and Trust God
Hi, my name is Laketa and I'm a control freak! When I’m unsure of my next steps I become frustrated and extremely anxious. I always need a plan, strategy, and direction. Can you relate? If you answered yes then I pray what you’re about to read helps you! Not knowing what moves to make or which way to go is uncomfortable and terrifying. I’ve always set goals and achieved them, but how can I do that when I don’t know what I want next? I reached out to my pastor recently about how to know the ... View the Post
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