Single ladies… let me ask you one simple question. How ready are you for marriage? Not that simple, right? Ask any married person, and they’ll definitely tell you that marriage is hard. So let’s talk about how can you effectively prepare for marriage…
Little girls are conditioned to dream about fairy-tales, Prince Charming, and fantasy weddings. That’s cute and all, but it’s time you wake up and get out of a fantasy world about weddings and marriage. There’s so much more to marriage than just the wedding day.
It might seem crazy to think about preparation for marriage when you may not even be dating anybody right now. How do you just jump from being single to worrying about being ready for marriage? Even if you’re in a relationship and you’re trying to figure out if the one you’re with is really… the One? I’ve got the answer. You’ve got to become the ONE worth marrying!
Become the Best You by Focusing on Personal Growth
I’m not saying you should be waiting around for the right guy to come into your life. It’s more about being strategic about becoming your best self. The key here is that you’re becoming your best self for YOU…. which in turn prepares you for marriage.
You should be consistently growing in every area of your life. Personally. Professionally. In friendship. Most importantly (if you ask me), you should be getting closer to God and stacking your coins!
Make an Effort to Prepare for a Healthy, Godly Marriage
This one is definitely important. I think we tend to prepare for a lot of things, but marriage isn’t always one of them. I think we are fooled to believe that we are so amazing that we would absolutely be an asset to a marriage without any preparation.
You ARE amazing! BUT… I believe preparing for marriage is key to a healthy, successful, long-lasting, Christ-centered marriage. I’ll be honest and say that while I can focus on becoming the best me, I’m not always sure about what exactly I need to work on before Mr. Right does come along.
This is exactly why I decided to enroll in The One University. Now there’s so many reasons this excites me, but it’s mainly because we don’t talk about this stuff enough! I want to be ready when Mr. Right comes along! You should join me…
In the One University, you’ll be able to learn from some amazing relationship experts on the following topics & so much more!
- Healing From Your Past
- How To Attract Mr. or Mrs. Right
- Learning to Date God’s Way
- Setting Standards Worth Keeping
- How To Know You Found The One
Be Strategic about What You Spend Your Time On
Every single woman with a desire to get married should definitely be considering the future. Every decision you make now has an effect on your future marriage. It’s so important to be strategic about what you spend your time doing.
This goes hand in hand with becoming the best you. By spending your time on all the right things, you’ll be becoming better day by day. Some of the top priorities I believe every single, Christian woman should focus her time on:
- Developing a healthy relationship with God
- Reading Self-Help Books
- Developing healthy friendships
- Taking Classes & Workshops to grow in knowledge
- Taking care of your physical health